I Walked on Fire
(and lived to tell about it)
by Ron Kurtus (revised 9 May 1997)
Have you ever heard about how people can walk on hot coals after attending a
motivational seminars? Did you ever wonder how they do it and what it has to do with
personal improvement?
I had such an experience and will now relate to you what happened and the lessons
learned.
Heard about fire walking
A number of years ago, when I was living in Los Angeles but visiting my parents in
Milwaukee, I saw a report on the NBC Evening News about people walking on fire. Tom Brokaw
started the report with, "Only in California..." He went on to show people at a
seminar walking on hot coals in their bare feet.
I thought, "Boy, isn't that nuts?"
Met some fire walkers
On my flight back home to Los Angeles, I met a couple who were going to Hawaii to go
sky diving. They said they had recently walked on fire, and now they wanted to try
something else more challenging.
When I told them I had seen something about the fire walk on television, they said I
should try it myself. "Try it. You'll like it," they encouraged.
Then they gave me the telephone number of a fellow named Tony Robbins, who was running
these Fire Walk Seminars.
Things fell into place
When I got home, I called the number. A woman told me that they would be having their
last fire walk that Friday, before going on the road. It would be in Santa Monica, just a
few miles from where I lived. If I wasn't satisfied (or too severely burned) I could get
my money back.
Isn't it amazing how some things just fall into place, like they were meant to happen?
That is what they call synchronicity.
So, I signed up.
The Fire Walk Seminar
The Fire Walk Seminar consisted of the Friday night fire walk and then two days of
material on the neurolinguistic
programming (NLP) method of personal improvement.
The seminar leader, Tony Robbins, emphasized that the seminar was not about walking on
fire. Rather, it was a metaphor for overcoming your fears and for improving yourself.
Profitable for Robbins
The cost was $400 for the weekend seminar, and there were about 150 people
participating. That came out to be $60,000 weekend earnings for Robbins and company. Not
bad.
Could see them preparing hot coals
While Robbins was running us through various confidence building exercises, his crew
was building a huge bonfire within our view outside. I started to have second thoughts.
Had to sign form with lawyer
At midnight, after signing release forms with his lawyer, in case we became seriously
burned (how's that for a confidence builder?), we lined up outside. There was a path 6
feet wide and 20 feet long of glowing, red hot embers.
I'm not that foolish
No way was I going to be so foolish to walk across those babies!
But somehow I found myself in the line, and soon it was my turn. Robbins told me to
concentrate on something cool. He told me to chant "Cool moss" over and over.
"And don't look down!"
I felt like a champion
So I started walking across those hot embers. I barely felt a cinder. Then as I got to
the end, I yelled out in celebration. That was part of the ceremony.
And I felt like a champion. I had overcome a scary challenge and achieved a difficult
goal. Hey, I was a champion!
How is it possible?
There were many scientific studies about how people can walk on glowing cinders without
getting their feet burned. The answer finally came out that it wasn't mind-over-matter as
Robbins and others had claimed. It also wasn't that fear caused the soles of your feet to
sweat, thus protecting you, as the newspapers reported.
Rather, the answer could be explained by simple physics. The wood used had a very low
rate of heat exchange, such that the embers
were red hot on the inside but relatively cool on the surface. As you walked across the
coals, you were never on a cinder long enough for the heat to burn your feet.
If a material that had a higher rate of heat exchange, such as coal or aluminum, you
would be severely burned.
Message important in overcoming fears
Fire walking is one of many ways people can overcome fears. There are seminars and
camps where people skydive, climb mountains, and walk among snakes. What is important is
the message presented along with the challenge.
I felt that the material on overcoming fears and NLP that Tony Robbins presented in his
seminar where valuable messages to me.
Lessons from this story
- Some things seem to be meant to happen, according to the chain of events.
- Overcoming a fear can make you feel like a champion.
- A big build-up can make something safe seem dangerous.
- There are scientific explanations for many mysterious phenomena, and you must separate
them from the mystical explanations that people like to hear.
- (Anything else...?)
Reader Feedback
Debbi Gould wrote on 16 December 1997:
First.... great web site.... Second.... I just attended the Robbins Firewalk in Dallas
(about a week ago) and am still concerned about the "days of brow beating" and
twisted tales that followed the firewalk. I found much of what Robbins said was filled
with "convenient half truths." It seems he would conveniently support his
statements by twisting a fact/data ever so slightly.
I also was aware if several incidents of people leaving the conference/seminar with
statements of "Robbins reminds me of Hitler... the way he manipuates
people". Did you see any of this type of reaction? I would be very interested in your
observations.
Debbi --
Thanks for your comments. When I took the firewalk seminar, Tony Robbins spent much
time explaining neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) principles which were very good. Since
then, I have noticed that some of his stories -- like helping the Army -- bring up
questions as to why they don't continue to have him help them.
Robbins has a very powerful personality, and I am sure he has helped people, but he is
also driven to make as much money as he can. He certainly has been getting more and more
slick in what he presents. Perhaps too slick, such that people see through him.
I don't think Robbins manipulates people in an evil manner as Hitler did. If he is
doing some sort of therapy to eliminate a phobia, manipulation isn't all that bad, but if
he is manipulating people to sell his product, that is a different story. Ron Kurtus
What do you think?
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Terms, Definitions, and References
Synchronicity
Carl Jung coined the term synchronicity to
describe meaningful coincidences that conventional notions of chance cannot explain.
A good book on the subject is Synchronicity by
Combs and Holland, Paragon House, 1990.
Back to synchronicity text
Neurolinguistic
programming (NLP)
NLP is a set of tools for modeling human excellence, with
special emphasis on patterns of communication. It was created by Richard Bandler in the
1970s.
A classic text on NLP is Influencing with Integrity
by Genie Laborde, Syntony Publishing, 1984.
Back to NLP text
Heat
exchange
See an explanation of Heat
in my Physical Science tutorial.
Back to text
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